If you've ever played music with me, you probably know my motto is “Don't be a hero.” But what does that really mean?
I believe that self-awareness and knowing your strengths and weaknesses as a musician is often more important than how much talent you actually have. Knowing what's in your wheelhouse, what isn't, what you'd like to be able to do, and what you're working on, is huge.
I have a very direct communication style, for the most part. If someone wants to hire me to play keys or sing for them, I'm not going to say yes unless I'm confident that I can deliver. Of course life happens, we get sick, etc, but there's a difference between taking on a challenging project that's going to take extra effort to pull off, and inflating your abilities so much that you find yourself completely underwater. I've watched friends go through that, and I've been there myself. It's hard to watch (and listen to).
As a band leader, I'm always parroting this motto to my players. I play keys. I don't play drums. I don't play bass. I am, at best, a campfire guitarist. I don't know if what I'm asking for is realistic, and I'll take clean, simple parts over something flashy every. single. time. Can't quite land it? Let's figure out something else. No worries.
It goes without saying that it's important to balance this mindset with one of growth and potential. My brilliant producer/sound engineer/guitarist friend Grey Bear Erickson once described me as a “meat and potatoes” player during a session, and I agree. I'm generally pretty consistent from take to take, I have good instincts, and I quite literally play well with others. I will tell anyone who asks, however, that I am not great at playing absolutely face melting keys solos. I have to be careful not to turn that into a permanent self-fulfilling prophecy. Taking solos is part of being a musician, I do it all the time, and while I might not be blowing anyone away in those moments, it always sounds tasteful. It's just an area with a lot of potential for improvement.
What are you working on right now as far as musicianship goes? What are your strengths and weaknesses?
